One of the things I enjoy about genealogical research is sharing my findings with others. That includes people on mailing lists, on the Ancestry.com message boards, and with members of my family. That doesnâ€™t mean that I normally tie my relatives to straight-back chairs nailed to the floor, gag them, and make the listen to the entire family story. While I might enjoy sharing all that information, I realize that a more subtle approach is needed.
This past Thanksgiving, we hosted my brother and his third ex-wife, and three first cousins and two spouses for the holiday week. One cousin and his wife couldnâ€™t make it but they were with us in spirit, I know. My brother and I, and these cousins are all descended from my motherâ€™s parents, Walton Carey Weatherly and Elizabeth Holder. Throughout their visit, they examined photographs on my â€œancestor wallâ€ in the living room; they looked at the genealogy binders at the documentary evidence Iâ€™ve compiled; and we talked about our familiesâ€™ backgrounds on all sides. We raised a number of toasts to our ancestors and relatives, we ate well, and we reinforced our family ties, and we became closer still.
Just before Christmas, I found what I knew would be the perfect gift for everyone. The Ancestry Store at Ancestry.com sells customized books about anyoneâ€™s surname. Our Name in History contains a great deal of information taken from census records, immigration records, maps, military service and pension records, and more. The book presents the points of origin of immigrants by that surname, the geographical distribution of persons by that surname, numbers who fought in the Union and Confederate armies, and so much more. These surname-specific articles are interspersed with articles about tracing oneâ€™s ancestry, following migrations, examining different types of records, and how to get started. Inside the back cover is a copy of Family Tree Maker software. Best of all, each book can be personalized from you to another person, making it a wonderful gift. Since this batch of cousins donâ€™t exchange gifts, I knew that this would make the perfect â€œafter New Yearâ€™s Dayâ€ gift. I ordered six copies of Our Name in History for the surname HOLDER. The books arrived in about three weeks and they are stunning.
Next, my cousin, Penny, who hosted the Thanksgiving 2005 cousin get-together this year, had brought me a number of her family documents to scan and copy. Among them was one especially beautiful hand-tinted photograph of my grandmother (Elizabeth Holder). I scanned the photograph at high resolution and enlarged it from 3â€ x 4â€ to 6â€ x 8â€ and printed it on 8â€x10â€ photographic paper. It is perfect for a matted 8â€x10â€ or 9â€x11â€ frame! The photograph was beautiful! I then decided that my brother and the cousins should each have a copy and so I printed five other copies. Each went into a protective envelope.
Finally, I went into my genealogy database and printed a narrative report about the HOLDER family, beginning as far back as I have been able to go and continuing to the current generation in all the descending lines. The report, with index, was fifty-six pages long, and I printed five copies, one for my brother and one for each of the the four cousins.
Last week, I packaged the personalized copy of Our Name in History for the HOLDER surname, the narrative report, and the photograph copy in a strong padded envelope addressed. I mailed them USPS Priority Mail and they began arriving on Friday and Saturday. All of a sudden, my cousins are enthralled with a real printed book about our grandmotherâ€™s surname. They are slowly reading the fifty-six-page report and are remembering more information and making notes. Two cousins framed their copies of Elizabethâ€™s photograph and hung them in their living rooms within hours of opening their packages.
It is amazing that the interest in one line of our family could be stirred to such frenzy in this way. All I did was turn on my scanner and printer, and order copies of the Our Name in History book. It was my way of spreading the family history and legacy outward, but I can already tell that I will get lots of new information from my cousins and my brother. In fact, Iâ€™ve already gotten two e-mails with corrections to dates and places, as well as details about other family members. Not only is the family hungry for more information, but the straight-back chairs are undamaged!
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